Work with Trishia

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Work with Trishia 〰️

Trishia (she/they) believes that no one should live OR die alone, afraid, or unprepared. She is a death worker, creativity doula, designer, artist, sister, eldest daughter, ninang, and dog mom, trained through Going with Grace in 2021, General Assembly in 2016, agencies, corporate spaces, retail, and—most importantly—her community.

Trishia supports creative ways to live, die and honor our individual and collective grief. All offerings are customized to you (because the work is never the same). In most cases, Trishia requires a YOU x session prior to any future work together.

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Guideline #1.
We begin with death. We begin with grief. 
We remember with gratitude.

Step 1:

YOU x

What if we made enough space for the experiences you’ve been going through—real, loving space—that then you could yourself —the builder and creator of your own life (and death) to see just a little bit above the fog? just a little bit above water? We will pull from my death doula training and grief care practices to really get to know who you are now, who you have been, and who you want to become to create a plan just for you.

Through gentle space holding, silence, and conversation, this session will utilize trauma informed care to uncover:

  • Who/m (or what) are you grieving?

  • What wisdom is your grief teaching you?

  • Does your current experience resonate with who you are now?

  • What (if anything) do you want to do about it?

YOU x Death sessions include a brief identifying insights into your grief, wisdom, and a personalized guidebook to move through.

$400

Step 2:

Design Your Destiny

After your YOU x Death session, we Design Your Destiny…meaning, we create a system and strategy that will hold you through this transitional period in your life, while also empowering you with the tools you need for parts of this ever-changing process so that even when we’ve finished working together, you can feel safe in your own capabilities. Strategies may include, but are not limited to, the following:

  • To know grief is to know love. Grief is the final act of love we give to the moments and people that have died. Together we can:

    • Plan pragmatic/logistical support to tend to end of life before and after transitions (advanced directives, power of attorney, arranging care, meals, etc)

    • Honor your grief through sharing story, meditation, spiritual healing before death, death meditations, legacy/memorial making

    • Create memorials for what/who has died (including our past selves), and work with them to process the things we can no longer hold inside us. Let the what we create together hold these big feelings.

  • Our desires are important. How do we prioritize our passions while transitioning out of overwork? How can we work with our desires to further develop our creativity and live our natural designs?

    Together we can

    • collaborate together on the work/rest equation—finding the right balance that works for you while centering your deepest desires.

    • strategize ways to create the life you are dreaming about

    • make a pragmatic plan (mixed with a little energetic magic)

  • Let me help you unleash and open you up to what is next on your journey. We will work together to design a permanent mark on your body representing what you are moving out of or into.

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  • A death cafe is an intimate peer-led space where people can come and share around any aspect of death and dying in a group setting. The space is facilitated with gentle space-holding that encourages participation (no matter how small) by all and does not shy away from awkward silences. We are not here to fix anyone’s grief but to make space to hold it for a short while with you.

    Often times, these spaces have been generative in navigating life/relationship changes and accessing memories, not necessarily tied to physical death.

    Death Cafés are a free offering, please email trishia@hypofutures.com to inquire.